Hurtful People

I really do not understand how some people can be so very hurtful at times. I just don't. There are three people in particular that I'm thinking of at the moment, who can say such incredibly hurtful/mean/degrading things about a person, and then will turn around and be super nice to you as if they had never made that comment in the first place. It's just not right. In same cases they may not know that you know what had been said, but honestly, what goes around comes around. It's so cliche, but it's true. We are teenagers people (or at least very close). Thus, the gossip runs strong. It didn't take long for me to do my research and figure out what is being said about me. I see this behavior being shown to others though, as well, so it's not just me. I just do not understand how you can act that way, yet still hold your head up high, and call yourself a christian. A few posts back, I made some nasty comments myself, which were read by the current person I am discussing, and I feel a lot of guilt about it. These people though, they aren't effected by it at all. Are the sociopaths? Heartless? Totally self centered and unaware that anybody aside from themselves have feelings? I don't know, but I'm kind of intrigued. The thing is though, now I know what I'm doing to annoy her. Do I modify this behavior to make her happy, or should I be mean and continue on, since she hasn't had the guts or decency to tell me to my face? Anyhow, in regard to certain claims made about my life style:

1. I'm lazy- yup, that's why I'm at the gym a few times a week. That's why I'm constantly going for walks. That's why I'VE ACTUALLY GOT A JOB! And that's why I've got better grades.

2. I do nothing but talk to my friends all day every day- Yup, I do talk to my buddies a lot. I've got friends to talk to. Friends that live in the US. That's not all I do though. Just because I'm typing doesn't mean I'm on IM. I've been working on that story of mine, if you spoke to me, you'd know about that. And when you add school, church, and work into the picture, obviously I must be away from this box for a little while during the day.

3. I'm fat and eat horrible food- Honey, I'm a great cook. My food tastes good, and is good and nutritious. As for fatness, look in a freaking mirror honey. You've got quite the gut to you.

One week, just one week left. It's just that we were getting along again last night, and I was hoping that that would continue.